My wife and I haven't had kids yet (we're hoping to start that journey in about a year), but we've discussed this topic a bit. She's a mother/baby nurse, and she sees both sides.

AD--It is more "exciting" post-delivery because of the surprise.

BD--Better for planning, apparently. Embroidered blankets, hats, shirts, etc. with the baby's name; planning a nursery at home (color, decorations).

I couldn't have made this post without her input, by the way. \:\)

"Only after sorrow's hand has bowed your head will life become truly real to you; then you will acquire the noble spirituality which intensifies the reality of life. I go to an all-powerful God. Beyond that I have no knowledge--no fear--only faith."