I won't get into the entire explanation but I will mention this. Picture yourself sitting a formal dinner. You have brought your 10 year old daughter with you (my client had previously met my daughter and mentioned that their kids would be there so I should bring her along). The boiled chicken was only one of the, how shall I put this, less than appetizing, courses of dinner. The others included Sea Cucumber (very, very nasty stuff), Uni (the edible goo inside of a Sea Urchin - actually a Japanese delicacy - husband is Japanese, wife and family are Chinese), Eel (actually one of the better tasting parts of the meal but still not so much fun to look at), whole shrimp, and various other foodstuffs that I found less that palatable.

JHAP
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"My mind is a raging torrent, flooded with rivulets of thought cascading into a waterfall of creative alternatives."
...Hedley Lamarr (that's Hedley not Hedy)