Gather the facts , think about alternatives , be sure what you want and value , talk to others to get another perspective but in the end never be scared to live life to the fullest. The worst mistake a human can make is to waste his life through a stupid act or by being to scared to get off the porch. Carpe Diem !!

Carpe diem is a phrase from a Latin poem by Horace (Odes 1.11). It is popularly translated to "live for the day". The phrase is often extended to explicitly mention the possibility of imminent death, as in "Seize the day, for tomorrow you may die." with emphasis on making the most of current opportunities because life is short and time is fleeting.