Greg, I have not posted here for a long time, as I've been depressed about my pond situation. I think I've sealed it but we are into a drought that like no Ole Timer has ever seen in Tennessee some 6 inches below normal in our wet season.
I post for the first time in a while to tell you that my prayers are with you and that I feel worse for your wife than I do for you. She has to be in a lot of mental anguish. It's hard on a man and harder on a woman, normally. I will say that my brother and one of my sisters have had their own problems. The brother and his wife now have four and my sister is expecting her second. If you are able to have another, it will be a great distraction. If not, focus on the one blessing God has given you, and know there are a lot of people out there who would love to have just one of their own and can not.
Either way, may peace be with your family and my prayers are with you and your wife and son, though I hold my head low because I'm not worthy to even request them.
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