Ryan :

Congrats !! Kids are an incredible and all encompassing journey for the rest of your life. When you find yourself getting mad or frustrated with them ; stop , relax and think about how to best encourage them to use the talents and opportunity given them. A thoughtful composed parent is a good example.

BTW we did the pre-birth reading/talking to and music thing and I feel like it helped.

On the fishfinder point. I know I don't want one that good. When I fish for them I don't want to look at the screen and see them laughing and making obscene gestures toward me as they swim off. \:D ;\)