Ed I agree. We are in the same boat with daughters that age. Life is a journey and physically we all end up in the same place except we don't own that 3 x 6 plot it belongs to the worms. Its where you have been, who you have helped and what you have done with the opportunity that matters, not where you end up. Seize the day ( carpe diem ) so that your spirit can soar to new heights. \:\)