I can relate to the soft heartedness. I didn't have to do any killing in any far off land although I was in the service, but my dad who was a Green Beret in Vietnam and Cambodia doesn't like to kill anything anymore either.

Cecil, give my regards and a snappy salute to your father, we supported the Green Beanies at Dak Pek in the A Shau valley. I spent about a week there. What they endured can't be expressed by words here.