Your neighbors are fortunate to have you as a neighbor. You've been, and are, an exceptionally good one.

The behavior of the guests at the feeder is unconscionable. I too have seen a lot of bad behavior at shared pond(s). It's discouraging. One has to roll with the punches and communicate as you have. Good luck as the journey continues, rlb3.

It isn't what we don't know that gives us trouble, it's what we know that ain't so - Will Rogers