Wishing you the best Rainman for your birthday and the birthdays to come. My mother was in the exact same situation as you face with a large tumor discovered on a kidney. The road hasn't been easy for her and the textbook odds are frightening. But despite some setbacks, she celebrated 4 years since the tumor was removed yesterday.
There are many good options now and in the future for you. But one step at a time.
If I can help guide you through this in any way feel free to message me.
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