John,

Your and my needs sound pretty much the same. I bought a used JD 585X 4WD with FEL. It has a 3 point hitch, PTO and belly mower. Absolutely one of the best investments I've ever made. I retired my wheelbarrow. This little tractor does everything we need and lots of attachments are available.

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