Cecil,
You just described our well water perfectly.
We have a Kinetico 2100F OD Overdrive filter with macrolite media. It works great. We started out with just a water softener but that wasn't getting it done so we added the filter before the softener. I don't recall what we paid but, you're right, it wasn't cheap.
I use water straight from the well for my little aquarium setup. For water changes I fill a 5 gallon bucket and let a simple box filter filled with filter floss run in it for several hours and that clears it up well before adding to a tank.
Last edited by Bill D.; 02/15/16 08:33 AM. Reason: Typo