Therapist, I can assure you that everyone who has responded to your posts wants the very same thing you want....that being a successful pond(s).
Finding your way around a new forum takes a little effort, but it's time well spent. Researching the archives will often answer a great many questions, as well as bringing up a few new ones. Ask away, but be sure you're asking for advice, and not just for someone to agree with a plan you already have.....big difference.
And when the likes of Bill Cody, TJ, and CJBS2003 reply with information, take notes.
