1. Oak is toxic, to a certain level, yes. Bull mesquite, no. Go nuts.
2. Got local quarries? Streams? Plenty of those 1/2 to 1 ton boulders will decorate nicely. Otherwise, river rocks.
3. Pea gravel is great. 1/4" and 1/8" river rocks are perfect.
Leo
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