Deb, You were on this site a long time before I was but I love your spirit. Your son is lucky to have a mom like you who will not give up. Welcome back and keep teaching your son + us how not to give up.
(1)Get healthy,(2) spend time with your family and if you have time... visit your Pond Boss family also. (in that order but flip-flop #s 1&2 whenever you can.
Happy Hollidays to you and your family!