Welcome Lamar, and Merry Christmas!
I can see how a new guy may think there are hostilities on this board. I'll assure you that 99.9% of it is just good natured ribbing, just like we do at work. You have to read between the lines, and not take insults at face value. For example, "mud sucking bottom feeder" basically means "catfish", and is not always meant to be a personal insult.
May the new year bring you the best of health!
