Deaner, I'm catching this late, sorry. I'm not sure what you're asking in your last post. You need help finding an email? Sorry, just not reading it right I guess. Anyway, this sounds really tough for this family and for their friends like you. Makes you feel helpless. But you're a great friend and neighbor in reaching out for help on their behalf. I'll send a check as well and will certainly keep this family in our thoughts and prayers. You've done a great job keeping this updated and I encourage you to do so.
Also, I wonder if the lack of traffic is because it's in a forum maybe not frequented as often? Could it be moved to attract more attention? Just throwing it out there. Seems like some other forums might get more traffic than this one.
