Jeez guys you really need to get control of your spouses.
When I married JWHAP (jeff's wife has a pond) I told her in no uncertain terms. Looky here I said, one thing you gotta get straight. I'm Captain of this ship. And the Capains word is law on the high seas. So when it comes time to make decisions just keep that in mind.
JWHAP completely agreed, she said "Yep JHAP you are Capitain of the ship and on the ship your word is law. Course I'm Admiral of the Navy and I'll decide whether you sail the high seas or sit in mothball."
At least we've got that all worked out.
Actually I joke about it but my wife is great. Ask her about some of the goofy adventures I've dragged her through over the past decade and you'll see that she probably should be considered for sainthood.
