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I was wondering how people feel about pond ownership in relation to other pond owners. Do people with big ponds feel superior to people with small ponds, even if it is subconsciously? Do small pond owners have an inferiority complex? Do people inflate the size of their pond to feel better or impress others? We know that people have different feelings about certain kinds of fish and people who grow them. Do people with multiple ponds have a different perception of single pond owners? Now that I'm a single pond owner, I know I feel different. Is there some kind of "pecking order" in pond ownership. Do older pond owners feel superior to newbies? Owning a pond has to affect us somehow. Come on let us know how you "really" feel.

I want to take this opportunity to plead the 5th Amendment.

Also, I have no recollection of that, Senator.

When I call my 1A pond a "lake" and then correct myself and say "pond", I feel the same as when I am asked if any Presidents have come from Georgia and I say "no' and then have to correct myself and say "oh yeah there was one - JC".
Is this normal?

All ponds are like good friends. It does not matter if your friend is 5'2 or 6'8 - fat or skinny - blond or brown haired - they are your good friend and that is enough. If you have a good friend you are lucky - if you have more than one respect your blessings. No boasting about good fortune as there will always be greater and lesser people than each of us no matter what and fortune has a way of turning on those who don't respect the fickle nature of their good luck.

I think that from Bob Lusk, on down through the moderators and more active members, this site has set an incredible and contagious welcoming atmosphere to everyone.

I probably have one of the smaller ponds, but because of all the assistance I've gotten here I feel that have a dream fishery.

Do I feel superior to others because of my successes -- no. I really want to be able to give back to others the kind of help I've received.

Do I feel inferior to others because of their ponds and fisheries -- no. We haven't heard from Meadowlark for a while, but wow, would I love to live like him, and many more on this website. But, I sure don't feel inferior, or even envious.

The only thing that kind of scrapes me the wrong way are articles I see in magazines (even a few in PB) about the wealthy and famous who flaunt what they have done -- but all has been done with unlimited funds through the use hired help and experts. They usually don't know a perch from a trout. And, they take all the credit for these beautiful ponds, farms, etc.

But, I feel secure in my pondhood.

Good fishn'
Ken

Well said ewest........VERY well said!

I feel envious of the guys with the 10+ acre lakes and wish Cheyenne19 would adopt me.

The other side of the coin: I do not envy the guys with big water when they get bass crowded or out of balance in any way. Then, eliminating hundreds of pounds of bass can turn into frustratingly hard work and/or expense.

My biggest envy is for those who live where there is adequate rainfall.

Feel superior? Not with my screw ups; uh, I mean experiments. I'm mostly a student who fails a lot of pop tests.

EwestI agree well said
Cat,Icouldnt agree more.I have a pond that is smaller than most also but,I,like many if not most here,have limited funds and more hours than I care to admit invested in it.Im proud of my accompishments so far.
On another note,when I see the pond or lake that you mention that was built when money was no object and the owner doesnt know fish from chicken Im just not impressed.

it's not how big it is....it's how you use it

I bask in the glow of my many blessings pond and otherwise. I feel not superior nor inferior. I'm a tiny blip in the universe. I simply go about enjoying each and every day God gives me to the fullest.

Absolutely, Brettski. And while your pond may be bigger than mine, I've used mine more. :P

I don't feel superior/inferior because of size. Once in a great while I get a little envious over climate differences - some PMs can have year-round trout or more months of Tilapia forage than me - but it seems kind of foolish to waste much time complaining about geographical differences. I like where I live and 99% of the time I am very happy with the kinds of fish I can raise here.

Well said Dwight...!!!!

Reminds me of a discussion a couple years back, what's the difference between a pond and a lake? A pond is anything smaller than mine, a lake is anything bigger.

I remember whan my "lake" was 100' in diameter.

The important thing is just to have a body of water to live beside.

My pond is the Pacific Ocean. I don't feel superior, just lucky.

I'm envious of anyone who can get to their pond or lake by foot, bicycle or UTV. That is folks who live where the pond is located.

I am envious of those people that live on their pond. I wish I could take a walk to my pond from my front porch, but bummer I have to drive 80-90 minutes to get to mine. But as far as size and inferior, Nope. All the guys on here seem to have different skills but all have the same love for our ponds.

Well said, Ewest! There will always be better and lessor--how true. One thing for certain, I know that I am very proud of what my hubby and I have accomplished with our, yes, small pond with the help of your site, other readers, clinics, etc--there is a wealth of information to be had. I read, I listened, I learned, and I followed instructions that were tried and true--and we put a lot of sweat in it. We don't have unlimited funds ....and yes, there are still and always things we want to do to the pond... But, the joy in what we have done is the ultimate achievement and WE ARE HAVING SO MUCH FUN FISHIN'.
***Gotta Go -- the Big One is Waiting for Me to Catch Him!***

Life's too short to worry about whose pond is bigger or better. I'm just grateful I'm lucky enough to own one. I spend my hours worrying about whether I'm doing my best for the critters that live in and around my pond.

You want the truth, you can't handle the truth!

Great thread Heybud.

I use to feel envy over the 10+ acre ponds posted here. And then I tried to manage my 3 acre fish hole. Now I'm greatful that my pond is the size it is. After buying the chemicals to treat elodea for 3 acres (slightly over $1,000) I'm now greatful that I don't have 10 acres of elodea filled water.

I was welcomed on Pond Boss from day one (probably because no one knew what a thorn in the side that I would become). No one ever made me feel bad that I only have one pond and that it was not huge or that I had too many trees around the pond or that I had a plethora (I like that word, I could have said "a lot", "a multitide", "an overabundance" but plethora sounds so regal) anyhoo, a plethora of GSF.

Wait a minute, come to think of it I did catch grief for the GSF. And that grief made me realize that yes, I am superior, I may not have a better pond, it may not be bigger, it may not be prettier, but as Brettski put it, it's all in how you use it. And I use my pond to raise the glorius GSF. I now know that I am in fact a superior pond meister to be honored with the presence of this wonderful species. I feel pity for those that don't know this wonderful fish. I am on the path to glory and greatness for defending this pinacle of sunfish evolution. Can I get an AMEN!




You now may return to your regularily scheduled programming.

You can have mine !

amen brother

Amen , Amen, Amen Bro

In a way I think I envy all of you, I read about the things that you have done and see the pictures of your work and it is always impressive.
Then there are the contributions to others that you make, if there is one psychological thread that runs through pond owners it is that, based on my personal experience.
Good thread heybud.

Rad, Your insight is always right on. My original post was designed to enlist both serious and tongue-in-cheek responses. No matter how we feel about our ponds or other's ponds, on this forum we are all in the same boat, so to speak. We have gathered here to help each other do our best to manage and enjoy our ponds. I do feel a little different since I sold Zephyr but not because I feel inferior or superior but because I felt I was blessed to own two ponds at one time. I still feel a loss and will always have good memories for Zephyr. Thanks to all for your honest opinions. GSA rocks!

Don't sell yourself short there Rad, we've seen photos of your place as well, multiple ponds, exotic fish species, tourist cottages in the works. You have quite an operation going on over there.